When it rains, it pours!

so I finally get a job .. to help pay bills and put back in savings .. Ive been working a month and guess what all has happened?

The elec bill was given to us late, therefore we basically have $400 worth of elec bills due at the same time

Mark needs new tires

Alternator went out on Marks truck

Tanners birthday is tomorrow

and the kids' school starts on tues the 26th (extra $520 a month)

and our Anniversary is the 25th!

I dont want anything else to happen .. but ya know what they say, when it rains it pours!

Is that too much to ask?!

Is it too much to ask that if you or someone has a problem with me, to come to my face and not behind my back? I am to the point that I cannot stand the FEMALE gender whatsoever! I have never (ok, maybe a few times) had a problem with expressing my feelings. I may hurt yours in the process but I dont hide or sugarcoat jack crap... so why cant someone return the favor and treat me the same? Is that too much to ask?

I am brutally honest and straight forward .. please be the same with me